It has been almost 12 months since i last blogged, sjoe! time flies. 

But i need to just leave this here today, because it excites me!

You know, I am an advocate of personal development, and really i have looking for a good personal development program that changes habits instead of just pep talks many of which leave us more frustrated if anything else because we understand we need to change and we have challenges that w need to overcome but no tools to really help us change.

I felt like this for most personal development courses until when i came across the Beyond Freedom Evolution program, which is a 12 months personal development program. It is basically the only one in the world. Beyond Freedom Evolution is designed to be a 12 month web based success course to guide you from wherever you are in life right now to get to wherever in life you want to get to. 

This is the same as a having a coach everyday at your finger tips, the program is brilliant and you can only see what i mean if you yourself test it for yourself, so if you are into personal development, leave your comment here or visit our website www.no-ceiling-income.co.za. 

Many of us are highly intimidated to the idea of a daily spiritual practice. In fact many of are intimidated by any sort of practice that requires commitment even is such commitment is to ourselves. People make new year resolutions and make promises to commit to themselves either in loosing weight, changing a  bad habit etc but forget about the promise by end of January.
This is a clear indication that many of us cant see commitment through, we start out excited and energetic but loose momentum to see the results of what we just started.

It has been proven that it takes at least 30 days consistently to change a habit, so if you have a new year resolution to loose weight and you stop at day 15 every time, you will never be able to see any results. The same goes with any issue that we are dealing with.
There are a lot of people who do not want to take responsibility for their lives, they meet you and all the want is to pour out their struggles to you hoping that you feel sorry for them and help them out. When one is asking for help from the place of self pity, it is different from someone is asking from a place of requiring help in a healthy manner.

Many of us also thrive in self pity, the more we share our troubles and struggles, they more attention we get as people feel sorry for us. I see this very often with women, yes it is necessary to have compassion for each other and assist each other in times of difficulty but when it becomes a habit and a way of life then it becomes destructive. Some of us we are the ones with problems every day, and it can even be the same problem stretched out and being aired to anyone who cares to listen for an entire year even longer.

And if we want to any impact in our lives  we need to commit to  a spiritual practice everyday. Physically most of take a shower everyday but spiritual and emotionally many of just bottle things up and we become so "dirty", we stink! I am not the one to tell which spiritual practice is the best, there are many options out which will work differently with different people, find out which ones fit your life and i leave you with this video

The one thing that i also find very powerful is the power of prayer; there were times i prayed only when i had problems. When something bad happens in my life, i 'd start praying and begging God to take this pain away. Iyanla Vanzant and many other authors speak about a spiritual practice; they speak about maintaining a connection with God through a spiritual practice. Yes, this was very difficult for me, i would forget to pray and only realised that i have forgotten to pray days after i haven’t prayed.

This went on until when i realised that praying is a way of life. Praying is a lifestyle of thanking God for what he has done for you and continues to do for you. In fact all thoughts are prayers and when our thoughts are negative then our payers are negative, we receive negativity in our lives. We must remember that God regards all things as fine as part of his creation. Whatever we ask God answers whether it is our judgement to see as negative or positive, God sees as part of his creation and if his children want that they will receive whatever they ask for.

The way i was taught to pray was every time i get to bed and every time i open my eyes, i recite out words and no one told me anything about the connection between the words and me, my mind and my body, the connection with GOD. I realised that when i am in pain my prayers are actually effective because i give it all my energy and i pray to connect to God and sometimes it happens because i start feeling better but the moment i stop something bad happens again and i start having the same excruciating pain again.

What I have done is that i realised i needed to remind myself to pray and i set a reminder on my phone to remind me at a specific time and at the beginning i use to excuse myself to go and say a short prayer depending on where i am and what was important on those prayers is the connection with God i made.

Many times we just recite the words and don’t feel any connection and we think we have prayed and as time went by i realised that sometimes i didn’t know what to pray about or even don’t know what to say so i started thanking God. So i would have a reminder and just bring that feeling of gratitude towards the creator to my mind when my alarm goes on. And this can be sufficient. I truly believe that all God wants from us is the connection, we can go church every day and recite long and complicated prayers but if we don’t intent to make that connection to God, it is as good as not praying at all.

Many people judge others who do not go to church and look at them as if they are already gone to hell. Some even judge others for praying to the wrong church but the question is, who are we to judge? Only God who created everything and anything can judge any one of us.

Many of us are prone to brainwashing, we allow people to tell us to do things we do not agree with. We are confused as to what is right and what is wrong, hence we allow other people to decide for us and we allow them to brainwash us into whatever their beliefs are. Learn to listen to yourself from within because in you there is wisdom, God created this in you for you to use and for you not rely on other people for direction. Even when you are reading this blog, God gave you the wisdom to hear and understand if what I am talking about gives you a sense of peace and relief if you go deep within yourself.

 When you don’t know what to pray about and you don’t know what to say, the book from Iyanla Vanzant titled “Every day I Pray” helped me quite a lot. There are various prayers that can help you put in words what you can’t put in words and as you say them loud, you realise exactly what you want for that day. And of course you can write you own prayers but it is very important to have a spiritual practice. By a spiritual practice, I mean we need to have some kind of a practice that keeps us connected to the Almighty, to our creator. You know when i was growing and i think i still hear people saying that we must fear God, maybe I misunderstood the phrase but to me when you fear somebody it is somebody who will hurt you if you misbehave, it is somebody who have the power to do something bad to you when you have been naughty.  

I feared the teacher at school because they can spank you when you haven’t done your homework or making noise in the class but with God, i feel we need to have intimacy with God, we need to commute with God. If he is really a father then we need to have fatherly love and intimacy with God, we need to be open with him, we need to miss him, miss talking to him, and miss listening to him. Of course many of us were never taught to listen to God, in fact we have different images in our heads of what God might look like but if you keep praying and seeking the connection with God you will find it and you will be able to miss that feeling of that connection and you will seek it with no extra effort, the same way you would miss a lover or a father or a mother or a son/daughter, friend and sibling. Praying has nothing to do with religion, it has nothing to do with the ritual, it has eveything to do with the connection to source, if you can feel, i believe how you do it is irrelevant and therefore we need not to follow a certain ritual or religion to do unless we are most confortable with the specific process.

Many of us look for solutions to our problems from outside of us. The liberating truth is that evertyhing you need to solve any issues you have in your life is right within you. Louise Hay puts it simply, the more you connect to the power within you, and the more you can be free in all areas of your life. Louise believes that there is inherent power within each of us that lovingly direct us to our perfect health, perfect relationships, perfect careers and which can and will bring us prosperity of every kind if we tap into that power.
I have seen many people allowing themselves to be brainwashed, follow audacious preachers and prophets, and many times if we go deep within ourselves, we will realise if these preachers and prophets are preaching is in alignment with what is inside us. I think all of us have access to knowing what is right because i think God has already created that core ability to differentiate between right and wrong within each and every human being. We have obviously closed our ears and eyes to that and we follow leaders even when what  they  are doing is in conflict with what is deep within us.

Louise further wrote that we must understand that we have a choice to use this power within us, in any way, if we make a conscious decision not to be victims of our past anymore and we want to go about creating new lives for ourselves, we must understand that we are supported by this power within, and new happier experiences will begin to unfold. This is the power to create whatever we want in our lives, and the only condition is that we clean up the limiting negative behaviours and beliefs, and claim our rightful place in the house of God as children of God.
Louise also believes that we contribute towards the creation of every condition in our lives good or bad with our thinking, feelings patterns. What we need to go away with from this article is that we have sufficient wisdom and knowledge and we always know what is best for us, we always know what to do even in the most difficult decisions, we have a gut feeling, an intuition, an inner message that directs us to what is best for us and unless we open our eyes and ears to this intuition, this inner message, we will always end up in the gut. we need to trust ourselves completely, we need to trust God completely  and allow our lives to unfold as God provided. The only condition to this is that you got clean up all limiting beliefs and behaviours, and in the next sections we have a number of tried and tested tools you can use to clean up these negative blockages in addition to forgives, self-love, affirmations and inner child work, there are many other tools such as meditation and EFT that are discussed in this book. These tools can be used in combination or separately, it is all up to you to see what is best for you, and you just need to look inside yourself for guidance.

Iyanla Vanzant, one of my favourite authors said that forgiveness is a powerful act of self love and self discovery, forgiveness does not erase the memory of an experience but it neutralises its impact. The deepest healing occurs when you can forgive what you have told yourself about someone else. Forgiveness is a process that supports the unfolding of the authentic self.

Somehow we were taught that if we don’t forgive and hold on to grudges, we believe that others will be affected by it. They have hurt us and we want to hurt them by remaining upset and angry.
This is so not true, the anger and holding on to any negative emotions and grudges will only hurt the person who is holding on to this emotion and we need to forgive everyone and ourselves for holding on to grudges and for believing that holding on grudges means retaliating.

Forgiveness has nothing to do with forgetting the event and losing the memory but releasing the emotions around the memory so you can cleanse your energy to create something different in your life. Yes, it might sound weird at the moment and you can’t clearly comprehend how one can remove an emotion around an event that made you upset, angry, sad and hurt. What i can tell you is, yes you can but you have to be committed to wanting to feel better.

I have also hear many people saying that i have forgiven, but really forgiveness when done, you feel some sense of peace, you cannot have forgiven and still have painful memories when thinking about the issue you have forgiven. This should be an indication to show you if you have forgiven in the true sense of forgivenss.
Forgiveness is not letting the person over the hook so that no justice is required. Dr Ben Colbert in his book Deadly Emotions said that a forgiving person can still require a person to appear in court or face legal penalties for a crime committed. Forgiveness is releasing layers of hurt and heals the raw jagged edges of emotional pain. Forgiveness cleanses and frees the entrapped soul; it is an act of self-love. We must also remember that whilst it takes two people to reconcile, it takes only one person to forgive.

We need not tell the people we blame that we have forgiven them, we do not need their approval to forgive and we certainly not need to forgive for their sake, but our own sake. Forgiveness has health benefits, we all know that it is the stress in our bodies that cause us (diseases) dis-easiness. We all know that when you go to the doctor, they tell you to go home, book you off work and tell you to rest and not stress. Many times however we tell other people to not bring us stress, other people are just living their lives and it is our responsibility to keep ourselves calm and unstressed. We cannot go around telling people not live their lives because they might just stress us.

Iyanla Vanzant has a 21 day forgiveness diet process, if you really want to change your life and release all hurt and emotional pain, take a pen and paper, and journal as much as you can. You can start with  "I {your name} forgive  {the name of the person who wronged} for having done {whatever they have done}. Repeat the sentence, rephrase the sentence in a way that resonates with you and do this everyday for 21 days. You are worth it.
For now, i leave you with a forgiveness EFT video to help you know how to use EFT for forgiveness. I can promise you that being angry with someone hurts you way more than the person you are angry with.

For the next few weeks, i will take excerts from my book and discuss with you until my ebook is ready. The free ebook will be available in 2 weeks or so, but in the meantime, i will give you some excerpts every week to have a sneak peek on what is the book, starting with the power of self love.

Throughout my self discovery path, i have come to a beautiful realisation that self love is actually  really the only solution there is. You know we hate ourselves so much for making mistakes in our lives. We are so hard on ourselves, instead of just loving ourselves completely and unconditionally. The word love you self is popular today, people tell you to love yourself and many people actually think they do love themselves but they actually do not.
Moriah Marston of the transformational times  wrote that “wishy-washy levels of loving ourselves the way we would “love” a good movie, new outfit or great meal is not the point. We’re required to cherish ourselves the way we love a spouse/lover, child, best friend etc. True love is a vigorous energy that fills the heart and overflows in all directions. Does your heart swell with amazing love that holds you in a sea of unconditional fondness and acceptance regardless of shortcomings? How often do you turn against yourself? How often do we beat ourselves up for something as little as saying the wrong word out to someone?

I used to ask myself, how does self love actually feel? , i have never loved myself so how am i supposed to know how it feels like, how am i supposed to search for soemthing that i have no idea how it feels like?  This was just an excuse as well, i know how it feels to love someone because i have loved before, i love my daughter, i love my partner, i love my parents, i love my siblings and i love my friends, so i know exactly how it feels to love someone, i only need to direct those feelings to me. And oh, boy it feels really  nice and liberating. How come no one ever taught me this before, i was taught to blame myself for mistakes and then maybe i wont make them anymore, but the more i blamed myself for my mistakes, the more i hated myself and the more i make the mistakes, and the never ending cycle continues.

Nowdays however, i have learned and i continue learning to love myself, my flaws, my mistakes, and everything about me, i love. Just the way i love the people in my life with their flaws and their mistakes. I challenge you today to love yourself, commit to at least 30 days self love challenge, when you direct the feelings you feel about your loved ones to yourself. you will be surprised that self love is actually the only solution to every problem. it is not easy however loving yourself, it will look like you jsut cant do it but do it anyways, and you will be pleased at the end of the 30 days challenge that you will have no chocie but do another 30 day and another , until you do it for a lifetime.
Louise Hay in her book “Heal Your Life said self-love is not vanity or arrogance or being stuck up, this is just fear. Self-love is a great respect for ourselves and a gratitude for the miracle of our minds and bodies and unless we love ourselves, we will continue to experience one problem after another, because the solution to all problems is a return to love, to loving ourselves.  When i love myself, i am able to love the people around me more, i thought it will mean that i love the people around me less and i become self fish, no, actually it means i love the people even more becasue we can only love someone to the level we love ourselves, and that is why the people we love in our lives are also the same people that frustrate us the most because we simply can’t love them more than we love ourselves. At the same time, we can only receive love to the extent that we love ourselves. And that is why we seem to not reciprocate the love of the people who love us most. We always want the people that love to the extent of where our own self- love has ended.

In the next blog, i will talk about the power of forgiveness because i have also learned that to practice self love, forgiveness is an intergral part of it, we need to forgive ourselves first for hating the person we have been, for hating the person we are and living the lives that we never wanted to live.

I live you with  the radical self love video, to learn more.
Talk later,
Aishe

I couldn't finish the book review on Marianne Williamsons book ,a return to love because I have been writing my book, yipee. I am done now and I would like to share with you my book. The book is all about emotional intelligence and how we can use it to solve life issues and live abundantly.

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today we talk about the ego, it is our ego that cause us problems. Marianne says that the ego is a choice of guilt, the holy spirit is choice of guiltlessness.

all negativity derives from fear, when  someone is angry they are afraid. When some is rude they are afraid, when someone is manipulative they are afraid, when someone is cruel they are afraid. It usually our ego which makes us feel these negative emotions because it is afraid. When you are surrender everything to God and to the universe, you have no fears and no ego.

it is the ego that tells us to react in a negative way, the ego will put up resistance when you are choosing love above fear. and the miracle that Marianne is talking about is the shift in our perception for us to realise that the ego causes more pain than we can imagine, and that we need to make a choice to love. many times it feels like someone has hurt us but what really has happened is that someone's closed heart has tempted us to close our own heart as well. that is why the miracle is the shift in our thinking: the willingness to keep our hearts open regardless of what is going on outside us.

this is easier said  than done but once we have made the commitment, we dedicate an hour per day to our spiritual practice that will allow us to shift our mind towards a miracle. and I am not talking about religion, I am talking about a spirituality.

lets look at several YouTube videos by Marianne Williamson

thanks Nadia for voting for the book for this month.

this book from Marianne Williamson is most probably one of the books which had profound impact in my life. There were times I felt like my life was chaotic and depressing. I prayed a lot when I felt too depressed and I would stop praying when things started looking up. There are many people who only pray when they in difficulties and not understanding that prayer should be a way of life. It is not just reciting words with no feeling but really being in gratitude and in a love connection with God.

This statement changed me "God help me get on my knees and never get up" which simply means that God help me make the connection with you and never lose it. Teach me how to remain in a prayer mode so to say, so that my whole life  is from a place of gratitude for you having created me, gratitude for my life, for my thoughts and everything about me.

The return to love is based on the principles of  "A course in Miracles" and what the course in miracles teach us is that the miracle is a shift in our perception. we need to shift our perception about our lives. Many do not realise that our problems are a result of our perception, which is as a result of how we were brought up, as a result of how our parents, grandparents and great grand parents were brought up.

Marianne said there is no such thing as a faithless person, we wither have faith in fear or we have faith in love, have faith in the power of the world or have faith in the power of God. If you have faith in fear like most of us, our lives are characterised by fear, we cannot go after our dreams and the things we want to achieve because we are afraid of what other people will say about us. We do not go after our dreams because we are afraid we are going to fail. We do not go after our dreams because we are afraid we will loose all the money we have.

If we have faith in love, we believe that we are love, we are powerful beyond measure and we are capable of achieving our wildest dreams. Thus we need to shift our perception, and to do this there is a process we need to do to heal the past and clean up the mess of the faith in fear we have had for so many years. If we do not do the healing process and experience the miracle of a shift in perception suggested by the course in miracles, all these will sound like a pep talk to give a short term boost which wont last.

If you want lasting change in your perception so that you can really change your faith from fear to love, then watch this space as I am going to unravel what Marianne Williamson is teaching us, so that we can change our lives and have abundant and beautiful lives. The lives that God meant for us as his beloved children.

Vangile teaches us how to create love in our lives, before anyone can love you. Self love starts by acknowledging your self worth and seeing the value that you bring to the world and others in your life. We need to have compassion for ourselves. We need to have empathy for ourselves, and others. We are too hard on ourselves and we believe if we do not shame ourselves in our minds, we will not have the motivation to achieve our dreams, but we also know that when someone shames you, it is rarely a motivation but rather a demotivation, and also there are many ways of getting motivation rather from shaming and beating ourselves up.




You need to listen to the voice is your head the moment you have done something wrong, do you call yourself stupid and ridicule yourself? Do you beat yourself and spend days thinking how you could have done such a thing in the first place? It is really necessary for you to do that? Do you gain anything from it? Would you do the same thing to the people we dearly love if it was them who made the mistake? So be kind to yourself, when you have made a mistake, treat yourself the way you would treat  a loved one who has made the same mistake. We treat others with so much love but we refuse to treat ourselves the same. Unless we treat ourselves with compassion, love and understanding when it comes to our financial decisions and spending habits, we will remain frustrated with money. The more we get frustrated, the further we push money away, and the more we are frustrated and the cycle  continues.




In conclusion as we wrap up Vangile's book, Van says money is an emotional topic, many  of us spend our lives chasing it only to end up hating or being frustrated, we beat ourselves up because we cant understand what we are doing wrong. Then we want to believe that our negative emotions about money are motivating us, but we can choose the good things about money to rather motivate us. We all know by now that what we put our minds on is what manifests, meaning if we put our mind on our frustration and bad decisions with money, we get more of it.

vangile is money coach and she is available for those who would like some kind of coaching, visit her website at www.wealthy-money.com and chat to her.

for the next month, we will look at the book on weight loss, from Marianne Williamson. Thank you for clicking and reading my blog. See you next month as I am changing this newsletter to a monthly newsletter.

Later,

Hi everyone, 

i thought i would share with you the following course details to be presented by Ketler Presentations SA. The course is hands on for us who are fearful of public speaking or just want to polish up on our public speaking skills. It is the theme we have been talking about in this blog, is how to shift our minds so we can experience fuller lives by understanding and gaining effortless control of our negative emotions.

please download the course advert and application form, fill it out if you are attending and please circulate your circle.

next week, we will wrap up Vangile's book review and we will start with another exciting book,

Later,
yours
Aishe

happy Easter to you and your family,

i saw an article today in the newspaper advising us to hold on to our money. I would say use this Easter to work on your emotions related to money, you would make a big difference towards your financial success.

take care and we will continue after the Easter break,
later my beloved,

the problem may be that emotions such as shame, quilt or worry are holding you back from financial success. Van can help you overcome negative emotions that frustrate your progress, let go of past hurts around money and start  to unblock the path to positive wealth manifestation as well as harness your positive emotions that lead to state of abundance that will change your finances for the better.
many of us grew up in poor families and we made specific conclusions with regard to money, i for example believed that being rich makes you arrogant and since God wants us to be humble being rich means that i am not in alignment with God's intentions. Even when people randomly tell us that it is what you do with the money that matters, this specific belief was deeply ingrained in my mind and hence despite working hard, i also made sure that i didn't get rich and thus stay humble.

On other side some people might have grown up the opposite, with too much money and no time for quality family time and might have concluded that one cannot have both hence even if they work very hard they cannot make enough money because they believe that it will compromise their quality family time which they might have missed so much and believe it is important. so they remain struggling financially and thus give quality time to their families. But the truth is you can both but you wont if you believe otherwise.
so the point is my dearest, if you are not where you want to be financially, you have made some untrue conclusions and you are keeping a specific belief which only YOU can change.

yesterday i was talking to Vangile via skype, and one can learn so much from her. it was a privilege for me to be able to speak to someone i admire so much. And we are going to talk more about Vangile's book but i think it is time for us to start looking at the book for the next month.
I am so excited, i don't know which book to choose, so i would like to ask you to choose  between these 2  of which one you think we should review for the next month: 

My all time favorite is from Marianne Williamson - "A return to love" - in this book Marianne shares her insights into how the practical application of love every day can provide an answer to the problems that confronts us, whether these are in our relationships, our careers or our health.

The other book i find very powerful is the "Power is within you" by Louise Hay - in this book Louise Hay expands her philosophy of loving the self and shows you how to overcome emotional barriers through learning how to listen to your inner voice, loving the child within and letting your true feelings come out.

Now that , the next month book is dealt with, lets look at what Van talks about further. She talks about disappointment as one of the emotion we look out for. Many of us are so scared of disappointment we would rather not do anything or go for after our dreams in fear of getting disappointed.  We would play small when it becomes to what we deserve to be rewarded financially as a way of saving us from disappointment. We don't to believe that we are worthy of financial freedom, because we would  terribly be disappointed if we don't get the financial freedom we believe we could get.  But then these authors are saying that if you choose to believe that we are worthy of financial freedom, we have a better chance at achieving that as opposed to not believing it at all because then financial freedom is surely not going to happen. what we believe , we become. This is true for our financial position, our relationships and our health. so ladies and gents, we need to get ourselves to believe what we want to achieve.

I will post some new videos on Van's book and please remember to vote for the book for the next month.
later my beloveds,

Hi my beloveds!

Today was a particularly challenging day. I have been trying to set up my  weekly newsletter on www.mailchimp.com, very nice but one needs to read up in order to be able to navigate through the entire system. There is so much one who can do with technology as well but one needs to read! I could share my blog on emails via newsletters, facebook and twitter at the same time.....great stuff!!!

But one needs to read about it first before one can navigate successfully through all these platforms. so ladies and gents, this is why i love books, you can literary find a solution to your everything, and on this blog my dedication is to find solutions to our personal problems be it career, health, financial or relationships!
This month we are discussing the principles highlighted by Vangile Makwakwa. 
By the way,  all books reviewed on this blog are available for sale, just contact me. Vangile's book is N$200.00 delivered to your door.

Now, like i said on my previous posts, emotions are our door to solving our problems and Van continues to unravel the problem of why we are not financial free, so i leave you with the following videos. Enjoy!

Good evening my beloved,

It is 09:45 pm and this is usually the time i start reading my books, when my daughter is sleeping  and the house is a little quieter. It is best if you read this time also because it allows you to reflect on what you have read before you go to sleep.

And as i mentioned earlier, this month we are reading the book by Vangile Makwakwa.  Van, as affectionately known looks at the most daunting experience for the many. Many of us are still working so hard, sometimes have many businesses on top of our 8-5 job, we can hardly make ends meet. We can hardly make enough to pay for all dutiful expenses, let alone pay for things we want in our lives such as nice clothes, a holiday or those gadgets we wish we can have. And some actually make the money but problems seem to appear at an equal pace requiring us to spend the money we are making leaving with nothing left for the things we wish for.

Now the question is why is this? Is life just supposed to be all doom and gloom?  Not according to Van, as well as many authors we are going to uncover on this blog.  Van says once you have mastered your emotions relating to money, you would master money. These authors have a compelling lesson to teach us and they are teaching us that, it doesn't matter how hard you are working and making the money, you will only keep the money required for a financial free life when you are in alignment with source.  You can only be in alignment with source when you have mastered your emotions. And i know this might not make sense right now but as we uncover this subject further, you will notice that it actually makes sense. i mean we humans anyways, we have emotions, so how can we master them? 

This is exactly the point, emotions are actually the most important thing and the one thing that differentiates us from other living species. Our emotions are important to the process of manifestation (creating the life of your dreams), because they act as vibrational indicators that let you know what you are thinking, says Van. Once you are aware of your emotions, you can make a conscious decision to change your thoughts and puts you in alignment.

Visit Van's website at http://www.wealthy-money.com for more reading and please you are welcome to comment, post questions or a discussion. Do you agree with Van?

i am now reading the book tittled "Heart, Mind & Money by Vangile Makwakwa, a south african lady who used the books in these areas to transform her life from inside out  and become financial free.

Subjected to  landing a sponsorship, Vangile is keen on coming to speak to us in Namibia and educate us about how to use emotional intelligence to become financial free. We chat later my beloveds, this month we will study this book and i will be posting lessons from this book.

Hi my beloveds,

My name is Efaishe Nghiidipaa, but i prefer being called Aishe for short. Many people cant pronounce the name Efaishe anyways, so it might be easier for you to pronounce Aishe.

I love books, and i read more than 100 books during the past 6 years and i would like to share my passion for books with you. I am totally sold out to books in the areas of self help, personal development , inspirational and transformational books.

So if you are as passionate about reading books as i am, join me in exploring this area and together we can grow, get inspired and live a truly abundant life. Together, we will study the books that will transform us from inside out, we will also share  quotes, videos, pictures etc to inspire us and transform us, so follow this page and together we can make a difference in  our lives!!!!! Yipe!!!!